I am a life coach who works with women who are ready to take creative control of their lives.
I’d like to share with you a concept that has revolutionized the lens from which women can choose to create their life.
Have you ever wondered why your life seems to be on repeat? Why you can’t seem to achieve anything more than what you already have? I can relate.
That was my life until I learned about a concept called future focus.
Think of your life as a horizontal straight line. At the beginning of the line mark 0 representing the day you were born. At the end of the line mark 100, the age you hope to live to. The women I coach are facing the midpoint of 50, or so.
At 50 you can either see all the life you lived, and make decisions based on past experience. Or you can look at all the life ahead of you and create from vast possibilities.
So, are you creating with a future focus or are you repeating the past?
My A-ha moment
My a-ha moment was when I discovered I was basing my future success on the failures. I have a box full of business cards from the risks I’ve taken. Regretfully, my identity became associated with failure. Now I see that I can’t create a different life with that limiting belief. I now look at my failures and see all the times I got back up and that failing will not kill me. I am free to create a dream life from future possibilities.
Are you ready to embrace your future self without the limitations of past proof? Reach out to me if you are ready to take creative control of your life.
And the birds fluttered around her writing “YES” in the sky!
It was an ideal fall day in the southern hills of Ohio, perfect weather for an inspiring hike in the woods. My parents and I wanted to enjoy nature before the weather turned wet and blustery the next day. They took me to a park I had not visited yet, knowing I’d love it.
The beautiful park made my heart happy! The grounds had been lovingly developed and maintained by naturalists. A community lodge reflected in a picture perfect pond surrounded by large mature trees. The trails had a colorful blanket of freshly fallen leaves and smelled heavenly! I was already inspired.
As we walked from the parking lot to the park entrance, a commemorative stone honoring a local naturalist caught me eye. The first sentence stopped me in my tracks.
“Charles R. Goslin. A man of uncommon energy, knowledge and remarkable accomplishments…”
Charles had uncommon energy.
Heck, I want to be know for uncommon energy! I was not even aware that uncommon energy was a cool attribute until I read Charles’ commemorative stone. How do I cultivate that?
I currently practice a daily habit of journaling a list of who I want to BE in the form of affirmations: I am a supportive wife. I am a loving mother, daughter, sister and FANCY (aka grandma). I am a loyal friend. I am a life coach to women who want to create their best life. Recently I added attributes I want to cultivate in 2020: tenacious, gritty, genuine, creative, connected and courageous.
Now I MUST add uncommon energy to my list!
What will your commemorative Stone Read?
Your best life is created with intentional habits and clarity of purpose. Goals are not the end game… it is the person YOU become in accomplishing the goals. It is the “commemorative stone” that makes us FEEL fulfilled.
To get started, ask yourself the following questions….
1.What do YOU want to BE known for?
2. What were YOU known for in 2019? Would you change anything?
3. What do YOU want to be known for in 2020? Why? Do you like your reasons?
NOW develop a list of attributes YOU want to cultivate in becoming the person of your dreams. Journal these attributes in the form of affirmations daily. “I am….” Writing them down daily as a reminder of how you want to show up in life is the secret sauce in becoming the person of your dreams!
So… What will YOUR commemorative stone read???? Who do YOU want to become in reaching your goals?
Let me help you
I’d like to offer a caveat: it is not possible to control what other people think of you. The most important thing is what YOU think of yourself. The most amazing thing you can do for your future dream self is to cultivate the attributes you want to be known for. Your future self will be grateful for whom you decide to BECOME today.
I am currently working with women who want to create their best life in 2020. I’ve already helped several women set a goal to jump start their decade. I promise YOU, it is so worth the time and investment.
I am offering a FREE goal session to anyone who commits to a 6 month coaching package to kick start their new decade. A goal session is a $150 value! PLUS… committing to a 6 months package saves you $200 off the cost of monthly coaching! SAVING $350 IN TOTAL (packages must be purchased in the month of December 2019). Email me for details!
Save money and become the person of YOUR dreams… write your own commemorative stone! It will be the best gift you give yourself this holiday season!
And the birds fluttered around her writing YES in the sky!