This is a common occurrence in the Eckhardt home. Jeff will communicate a thought he thinks will help me. He is dumbfounded when I share the same thought as an epiphany I learned from a podcast or a book. Why did I have to hear it from someone else? He was right the whole time.
Today I had a similar moment with God
I am a journaler. I write out all my feelings to determine what I think about them. God has been whispering the word “BE” to me for a long time. It didn’t register until today.
Road to an epiphany
I have created a wonderful habit of listening to podcasts as I get ready for the day. If you haven’t already, check out my 5 Podcasts To Finish 2018 Strong article.
My habit has introduced me to wonderful Influencers. I am currently enjoying the #Last90Days challenge with Dave and Rachel Hollis. I tune into their daily FB live for inspiration. Their Five To Thrive has really propelled me into some great foundational habits.
I’m seeing a reoccurring topic arise throughout the podcast world. Everyone seems to be talking about habits.
I am currently listening to The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do on Audible. This is a book Rachel Hollis recommended the first week of the #Last90Days challenge. Wow! The study of habits is fascinating. The same week I started to listen The Power of Habit I heard an interview on Lewis Howes’ podcast with James Clear. James just wrote the book Atomic Habits. Blew. My. Mind. I highly recommend listening to this podcast!
The road to an epiphany led me to a Habits.
I am a reader
My copy of Atomic Habits arrived in the mail yesterday. Ironically, I am creating a new reading habit at night. (I am a reader) I devoured the first three chapters, underlining and wiring comments on several key ideas. Here are a few of my favorites:
- A habit is a routine or behavior that is performed regularly – and, in many cases, automatically.
- the quality of our lives depend on the quality of our habits
- Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement
- Success is the product of daily habits – not once-in-a-lifetime transformations
- You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems
- an atomic habit refers to a tiny change, a marginal gain, a 1 percent improvement
- atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results
- there is a difference between outcome based habits and identity habits
- It’s hard to change your habits if you never change the underlying beliefs that led you to your past behavior
- The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity… when your behavior and your identity are fully aligned, you are no longer pursuing a behavior change. You are simply acting like the person you already believe yourself to be.
- The focus should always be on becoming that type of person, not getting a particular outcome
Wow! A paradigm shift! I had to let all of these ideas sink in. What stood out to me is that I didn’t truly believe I could be the person who accomplished dreams. I didn’t believe I could BE successful or healthy (skinny). I didn’t even believe I could BE a nice person. UUGH!
He was right the whole time
This morning God whispered to me again, “Be.” Turns out he was right the whole time. God was leading me to focus on who I wanted to BE. He is interested in leading me to my true identity. Why didn’t I hear him from the beginning? I was focused on outcomes. I didn’t have faith in the journey!
I will focus on small changes over time. My goal is to become the best version of myself.
The question becomes, “Who do I want to BE?”
- I am a christian (true identity). I am loving and loyal to my family and friends.
- I am a healthy person who is committed to daily exercise, drinking water, and eating well (I am skinny). 😉
- I am a natural networker. I love connecting people and helping them realize their dreams!
- I am a leader who uplifts her team to the best version of themselves.
- I am a reader… love to learn!
- I am patient… becoming the best version of myself takes time. 🙂
This epiphany might only be for my benefit.
He was right the whole time. I don’t think God is upset that I didn’t hear “BE” the first time. I think he knew I needed to take this road to an epiphany. Tiny habits over time compounds into the person I want to become! I am thankful for this lesson.
I am humbly grateful if this resinates with you! Let me encourage you! Decide the person you want to BE and create habits that serve that person.
I’d love to hear from you! Get a copy of the book Atomic Habits. Let’s share what we learn with each other! Let’s believe in who we can BE!
And the birds fluttered around her writing “YES” in the sky!